
Overview
- Discernment: Is this right for you? Are you called to join this cohort of seekers?
School of the Spirit grads will tell you that a decision to enroll in a one- to two-year journey of spiritual nurture is likely to mark a turning point in your life; it will be one of the hardest – and most rewarding – decisions of your life. We encourage you to take up this invitation with both open-hearted curiosity and seriousness. Consider gathering a clearness committee to listen to your hopes and your hesitations and help you discern how to follow your leading. If together you find clarity to apply for the program, these people who have begun to witness your story might well be candidates to transition into being your Spiritual Care Committee (See #5 below)
- Four 2026-27 weekend residencies at 3-month intervals
a. Half the cohort attending on-site, (12 in-person attenders and up to 3 visiting on-line participants), and
b. Half the cohort attending on-line, (12 zoom participants; up to three of whom may choose to visit a given residency on-site)
Up to 24 participants will gather for Year Two of the program, to work together on discerning and preparing for the work/ministry to which God is calling us — the unique place where our gifts and longings meet the world’s needs.
For 2026-27, we will gather on these dates:
- Memorial Day weekend, May 21-25, 2026 (Thur – Mon)
- Labor Day weekend, Sep 3-7, 2026 (Thur-Mon)
- Veterans’ Day weekend, Nov 12-16, 2026 (Wed-Sun)
- Presidents’ Day weekend, February 11-15, 2026 (Thur-Mon)
Each residency will be held in one or the other of these locations:
- Weber Center
A retreat center for people from all faith traditions in Adrian, MI
60 min drive from DTW (Detroit), 40 min drive from TOL (Toledo) - Pendle Hill
A Quaker study, retreat and conference center in Wallingford, near Philadelphia, PA 20 min drive from PHL (Philadelphia airport)
During each four-day retreat, up to three on-line participants can choose to attend in-person, allowing relationships that have formed electronically to have a face-to-face connection.
The residencies take a deliberate path through a learning arc that extends across both years. We expect many participants will continue through the full sequence as a community growing in wisdom, love and Light. However, if you have worked elsewhere to ground yourself in contemplative living with the Divine (INHALE) and find a longing to join us as we turn to discerning and preparing for the work we’re called to in the world, please consider joining us for Year Two (EXHALE).
For more info on each residency, see below on this page.
- Three all-zoom “meaning making” options, once between each residency weekend for reflection and conversation
Each year in April, July and October – nestled between the quarterly residencies to offer continuity of connection and some form of gathering every six weeks – we will gather on zoom to reflect together, ask questions, push back and listen carefully to each other – as a whole group and in breakouts for more personalized exploration.
- Small Spiritual Companioning Groups (SCGs) of 4 that meet every two weeks to witness each other’s search for Inner Guidance
Threading through the other elements will be a bi-weekly small group gathering during which three to four spiritual companions witness while each in turn takes time to work with Spirit. The animating purpose is to experiment with asking for Inner Guidance, be deliberate about following it, and record what happens as a result. Over time, the practice directs next steps in concrete ways, and builds an experiential trust that Spirit will start exactly where one is and open up God’s Promise.
- A Spiritual Care Committee to follow and support each participant’s journey – from one’s home meeting/church, or remotely organized
Each participant organizes a set of elders who listen to and provide feedback for the transformational journey as it unfolds. Usually based in one’s home meeting/church, it can also be remotely organized or hybrid. For more on the role of this kind of support committee, see the School of the Spirit’s pamphlet, which can be purchased in hard copy or downloaded here.
- A commitment to reading between each residency (from an interactive Reading Playground) and to reflecting with fellow participants about what grows from the reading.
A rich collection of wisdom (books, videos, podcasts, plenaries) offered by teachers, elders and experienced seekers has been organized into an on-line mind-map which cluster related (and annotated) content. Using it (along with their own accumulated wish-lists or bedside table piles) participants will assemble their own reading plan, post it along with other participants to form a collective learning plan each quarter, and discuss emerging themes and questions. We’re not setting a target amount, but recommend you choose the pace you intend to commit to – perhaps with the help of your Spiritual Care Committee.
- A quarterly Self-Examen in preparation for each residency (reflecting on their SCG experience, reading, care committee, relationship with their meeting)
In preparation for each quarterly weekend residency, participants will write and share with their care committees and teachers an overview of their spiritual formation work. Guided by queries, the self-examen affirms satisfying progress, notes knotty problems about which Guidance will continue to be sought, explores openings for new possibilities and generally offers an opportunity to step back and take a long view of how Spirit is working on one’s life.
Residencies




Year one ~ Inhale
Residency One: What IS God’s Promise in All Its Fullness?
Knowing God experientially (what Quakers call “convincement”) … Listening underneath each others’ different languages … Taking stock of the cost of emigrating to live in God’s Kingdom … Leaning into continuous revelation
Residency Two:
Naming the Powers
How then shall we live? How do we align our outer life with our inward knowing? … Trading coercion and violence for openness and compassion … Claiming a home amid a violent and unraveling world where Powers of Domination and Empire hold the world in thrall
Residency Three:
Surrendering to a Flow Larger Than Ourselves
Inviting the Light to “show and discover” what needs to change (what Quakers call “conviction”) … Welcoming mistakes, shortcomings, guilt, numbness, shadows as openings … Surrendering to the dance of God’s rhythms of retirement and engagement
Residency Four:
In The Image of a Creator
Birthing Inward Truths into Outward and Tangible Forms … Claiming the joy of being co-creators with God … Making art/Making Life in Empire … Spiritual Gifts and Community as artists’ tools …
Year two ~ Exhale
Residency Five:
…And Not One Thing More
Finding the work God has for us alone … Distinguishing a call from a good idea (making space by saying “no) … Using spiritual gifts to point to calls … Trusting instead of Fixing: sitting with suffering and embracing grief … Claiming spiritual authority
Residency Six:
Engaging The Powers
On not becoming the evil we resist … Instead resisting by claiming the freedom to become fully ourselves … Embedding in Empire; walking against the current … Expecting resistance and responding with curiosity and calm … Free in obedience
Residency Seven:
Spiritual Muscle Building
A new look at safety (promises to ourselves) … making brave spaces … beefing up our care committees … asking for what we need and speaking our truths … looking foolish when necessary …
Residency Eight:
Claiming Joy
Celebrating each other’s ministries … affirming diversity and complementary gifts … layering support … Exploring how to sustain joy when the going gets tough