“I think God always meets us where we are, and over the decade that I have been a Friend I have been in so many different states of being and meeting for worship was both a comfort to me and a challenge for me but I was being as good a Friend as I knew how to be or was able to be, and being there as my authentic self was what I had to offer to God at the point. So I’ll say that I think when we show up that’s all God requires of us.”